25 Things your Child’s Teacher Won’t Tell You

Teaching is a unique profession. I believe it to be one of the most difficult and that is not just because I do it for a living. Not everyone can step into a classroom and successfully complete all of the tasks that a teacher is required to do in a day, but many think they can. As number 3 of this list states, teachers often get told how to do their jobs by people who truthfully have no idea what it takes to run a classroom. The following list of comments are from educators around the U.S. posted by Readers Digest and this is a list every parent should read…

1. My rule for hormonal middle-schoolers: Keep your hands where I can see them.

2. My first year of teaching, a fifth-grader actually threw a chair at me. I saw him recently, and he told me he just graduated from college. That’s what makes it all worthwhile.

3. I have parents who are CEOs of their own companies come in and tell me how to run my classroom. I would never think to go to their office and tell them how to do their jobs.

4. We don’t arrive at school 10 minutes before your child does. Andwe don’t leave the minute they get back on the bus. Many of us put in extra hours before and after school. Often, our work has to go home with us too.

5. We are not the enemy. Parents and teachers really are on the same side.

6. The truth is simple: Your kid will lie to get out of trouble.

7. Encourage your child to keep reading. That’s key to success in the classroom at any age.

8. We can tell the difference between a parent helping their child with homework and doing it for them (especially when they’re clueless in class the next day).

9. Teaching is a calling. There’s not a teacher alive who will say she went into this for the money.

10. Just because your child says he did his homework doesn’t mean it’s true. You must check. Every night.

11. Teaching is not as joyful as it once was for many of us; we get jaded too. Disrespectful students and belligerent parents take a toll on us.

12. Parents give their kids the pricey gadgets and labels, but what kids really crave is for you to talk to them. They want to know you are interested in their lives.

13. We spend money out of our own pockets to buy things our students need, such as school supplies and even shoes.

14. Supportive, involved parents are crucial. But some are “helicopter parents”–they hover too much.

15. Having the summer off is great, but many of us have to take on extra jobs–teaching summer school, tutoring–to make ends meet. Much to contrary belief, we do not get paid for these months “off”.

16. Success is not achieved by just making kids memorize flash cards and prepping them for an Ivy League school. Sensible parents know there is a college for every kid, and that responsibility and good citizenship are what really drive success.

17. Nobody says “the dog ate my homework” anymore, but we hear a lot of “I left it on the kitchen table.” And then Mom will send in a note to back up the story.

18. We wish parents would make their kids own up to their actions instead of pressuring us to bend the rules.

19. Please stop doing everything for your child and allow them to make mistakes. How else will they learn? Kids are not motivated to succeed because they feel their parents will bail them out every time.

20. There are days when I just want to quit, but then that one smile from that one kid, changes it all.

21. Public education really isn’t free. We still need extra donations of supplies, kleenex, soap etc. Otherwise, we end up paying for it out of our own pockets.

22. Moving your child away from the “problem” doesn’t really solve the problem at all in most cases. It sends the message to your child that running away is the best way to solve problems.

23. Children learn by example, so be a good one!

24. Teachers truly love children. If not, you can bet we wouldn’t put ourselves through this tough of a job every day.

25. Nothing makes me smile more than a child saying “I love school so much I didn’t want to stay home”. That truly makes it all worth while.

Sources: American Federation of Teachers; interviews with elementary and middle school teachers in California, Connecticut, Georgia, Iowa, Minnesota, New York, and Texas.

Every day I step into my classroom I learn a new lesson. This is what I love most about teaching. Children are so honest, fresh, and gentle. It is what they are exposed to that changes that. The longer we can keep them children the sweeter they are and I enjoy every minute of them. This is not to say some days I have less patience and some days I just wish I could curl up with a cup of tea on the couch but most days, I truly love what I do and I wouldn’t change it for the world. If there was one thing I would like the parents of my students to know it would be that I truly love their children. I care about them as individuals, not just as a student in my classroom and in order for education to be a success, we need to work as a team. It takes 3… you, me and your child. When we have that, your child will be a sure success!

Children are my present and everyone’s future so we must nuture them the right way. After all, one of them will be devising a plan for our healthcare someday.